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    march 12, 07 my dad bought a atomic blue metallic civic.
    since then i found my love for being a clean freak and detailing.
    i took great care of that car since then until yesterday.
    i wanted to wash the car and was going to wax it.
    i wanted to wash it by the garage in the back but my dad refused because his tiles that go to the basement would get wet....Im like Relax they get wet all the times when it rains.. and that i can clean them up after...
    i hid the keys from him and told him i have to wash it here because the keys are gone....
    after arguing with him for 15 minutes he grabs me like a dog, rips my shirt somewhat and then i get so fed up with his behavior i just give him the keys and say " im never going to wash this car again, remember my words"
    I went home and didn't care any more

    LAter that day my dad decided to wash the car out front where he wanted me to do it too. He used the mitt i wash the wheels of all the family caars and washed the civic.... not only that he was using a strong pressure on the paint and was just washing it ALL WRONG!
    My heard broke at that moment... i knew i could never love that man or the car the same way...


    I didnt look at the car yet and dont want to, i know there will be scrathes...

    this morning my dad wakes me up and tells me to wash the car again because there are spots on it and wax it and gives me 20 bucks....

    i dont know what to doo guys.. i need some helpp....
    Last edited by Markus Kleis; Jul 4, 2009, 03:38 PM. Reason: Language edited to remain family friendly

  • #2
    Re: dad killed my love

    Get a place of your own.
    NOTE: Post count does not reflect actual detailing knowledge.

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    • #3
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      How old are you, Bulli?
      Swirls hide in the black molecular depths, only waiting for the right time to emerge and destroy your sanity.
      --Al Kimel

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      • #4
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        If you wash it, all you will be doing in enabling the fact that its alright that he treats you that way...and thats not right, no father should do that to his son..and if it was my dad he would have been laid out on the floor..respect goes both ways...
        Fergy-

        You're only as good as your last detail

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        • #5
          Re: dad killed my love

          im 19

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          • #6
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            I infer that you father is an alcoholic. Does he physically abuse you? Have you considered moving out? Is that a possibility?
            Swirls hide in the black molecular depths, only waiting for the right time to emerge and destroy your sanity.
            --Al Kimel

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            • #7
              Re: dad killed my love

              Wash it for free and work out the relationship with your Dad.
              Car, even though we love them, are things that come and go, peaces of metal.

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              • #8
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                i wouldn't say my dad is an alcoholic
                he just gets drunk off of 1 or 2 beers.

                he is cool when not drunk...
                im going to wax it for him for the 20 bucks.
                after all i am unemployed and tomm its my bros b day so i might as well buy him something.

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                • #9
                  Re: dad killed my love

                  Originally posted by Bulli View Post
                  i wouldn't say my dad is an alcoholic
                  he just gets drunk off of 1 or 2 beers.

                  he is cool when not drunk...
                  im going to wax it for him for the 20 bucks.
                  after all i am unemployed and tomm its my bros b day so i might as well buy him something.
                  And how often is he drunk? It's not the quantity of alcohol consumed that makes a person an alcoholic.

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                  Does your father physically abuse you, your mother, or your siblings when he's drunk? I do not expect you to answer, but if he is, then you need to see out professional help. Alcoholism is a terrible disease which destructively touches so many lives.
                  Swirls hide in the black molecular depths, only waiting for the right time to emerge and destroy your sanity.
                  --Al Kimel

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                  • #10
                    Re: dad killed my love

                    Join the Marines!

                    USMC

                    I joined when I was 17.
                    Freedom prospers when Christianity is vibrant and the rule of law under God is acknowledged

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                    • #11
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                      no he doesn't beet me or anything..
                      lately he has been drinking almost every day though ahah

                      on a side note i wanted to wax the car today but he didn't try it yesterday and now there are water spots on it.
                      i used some quick detailer to try to remove them but that didn't do much..
                      after using cleaner wax on the hood it was better but the outlines of the water spots are still there... i didn't want to wax the whole car since it was pointless at this point...

                      it would need a clay bar again... its been about a year already

                      i think i will just wash it sometime, and use tech wax 2.o untill august where i will probably do the full detail so he can have a clean car, winter ready by the time i go to school again...
                      but blah.. i dont think i have the energy for a fulll detail by hand

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                      • #12
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                        No one deserves that!
                        Leave and never talk to him again.

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                        • #13
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                          Originally posted by Maserati Mario View Post
                          Leave and never talk to him again.
                          I disagree emphatically with this advice.
                          Swirls hide in the black molecular depths, only waiting for the right time to emerge and destroy your sanity.
                          --Al Kimel

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                          • #14
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                            Wash
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                            Nick
                            Tucker's Detailing Services
                            815-954-0773
                            2012 Ford Transit Connect

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                            • #15
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                              No matter what happens, he's still your dad. He raised you, and he lets you live off of him, so you've got a lot more appreciating than complaining that you should be doing. If you can't stand him, then get a job and move out. If you can't move out, at least pretend like you respect him, because after all, he is the one who's making sure that you're staying alive.

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